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A Mom's Year

Creating a comfortable life one moment at a time

February 26, 2013

Comforting Clothes

Are there special comfort clothes you love to slip into at the end of a long day? Maybe yoga pants or a well-worn robe or anything flannel? Every day after school, Lily changes into yoga pants and one of her dad’s T-shirts. Her favorite is the one with Kermit. She’s only eight, but she totally gets the concept of comfort clothes.

Comfort clothes took on a whole new meaning for me during my three pregnancies. I had awful morning sickness—eighteen weeks of nausea, day and night. It was so bad that fabrics with even the slightest bit of stiffness bothered me. (This is one time when I hope you can’t relate!)

Luckily, Tim had a bunch of white, V-neck undershirts left over from his days at the Air Force Academy. These shirts had been washed and worn to the most wonderful, comforting softness you could imagine. Between the T-shirts and Harry Potter, I made it through morning sickness.

And when I got really big, I switched to Tim’s old USAF lacrosse T-shirt. It was just as soft and cozy as the other tees, but very stretchy.

The white T-shirts succumbed to holes long ago, but the lacrosse shirt is still hanging in there. It’s funny, really, how happy it makes me to slip that scruffy thing over my head. It’s like an old friend telling me it’s time to relax. I throw on a pair of bright blue Victoria’s Secret velour sweatpants (from an old Halloween costume) and a lavender robe of the softest flannel, take a deep breath, and head off to watch Downton Abbey.

Do you have favorite comfort clothes? Do you nab someone else’s clothes (like Lily and me) or do you have something of your own that you love to wear to relax?

 

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  1. Steph says

    February 27, 2013 at 12:35 am

    I used to borrow my Dad’s and brother’s shirts all the time when I was a teenager. Now my daughter does the same thing! I turned up at the hospital to have my first baby in my husband’s tracksuit and underpants! I’d been borrowing his undies for the last month. We invested in a few more maternity clothes for me for my next two pregnancies you’ll be pleased to hear! And these days I live in comfy scruffies – you can’t look cool doing farm jobs. I just have to make sure I remember to change before I go shopping. It’s been known for me to turn up at the supermarket in wellies… not that anyone would notice or care in Boussac! It’s a very rural small town.

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  2. Jackie says

    February 27, 2013 at 8:08 am

    I have a hooded sweatshirt that is my comfort shirt, especially when traveling. I love the confidence of throwing it into the luggage, because it’s perfect for being comfortable. Camping up in the Brainerd area? Check. Kayaking out in Gloucester, MA? Check. Sitting on a beach early in the morning in Florida, reading? Check. 36 hours in the waiting room of the hospital, while your niece refuses to be born? Check. Standing at the top of Aspen, admiring the beauty of CO? Check. The only issue is that you can’t tell one occasion of my life from another, since I am wearing the same sweatshirt in all of my favorite photos!

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    • Shannon says

      February 27, 2013 at 11:14 pm

      I tend to like the old and familiar, too, Jackie, although now and then I crave something new to wear. I laughed at the idea of you not being able to tell the special occasions apart!

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  3. Rosa @ Flutter Flutter says

    February 27, 2013 at 2:03 pm

    Hubby gave me some navy blue fleece pj’s with turquoise polka dots on them for Christmas… SO warm and comfy!! I’ve been getting in to my pj’s at 7 o’clock along with my boys lately! lol

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    • Shannon says

      February 27, 2013 at 11:10 pm

      Fleece! What a great husband. 🙂

      Reply
  4. Soleil says

    February 28, 2013 at 6:33 pm

    I have two / three oversized cardigan style sweaters ( of varying weights for different seasons) that I wrap up in as soon as I get out of my work clothes and on the weekends. I usually pair it with drawstring style polka dot pajama bottoms and a t-shirt.

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  5. Shannon says

    February 28, 2013 at 9:43 pm

    That sounds wonderfully comfy—love the polka dot bottoms!

    Reply

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Hello! My name is Shannon Taylor and I’m a mom of four, originally from Minnesota and now living in Maryland. I "published" my first newsletter when I was nine, and since then, I’ve written and edited for magazines, websites, and textbooks. I started this blog when my kids were small to reflect on life, share ideas, and preserve memories. Now that my children are grown, I continue to use this space to document meaningful moments and practical ideas.

If you're in the mood for a bit of Christmas cheer, you might enjoy THE ADVENT BOX, available wherever books are sold. You can click on the cover below to learn more.

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I grew up in Minnesota. My mom was the Social Justice Chair at our Lutheran church, so it was normal to see her rush out at all hours to deliver food, diapers, and other aid to people in need. When St. Paul began welcoming Hmong refugees, my parents were among the first to help. For my Vietnam-vet dad, I`ve always believed it was an opportunity to atone for the sins our country committed in Vietnam. I remember two families in particular because they made wonderful food as a gift for my graduation party. Another time, a Somali woman and her daughter showed up at our church looking for community. So my mom invited them to Thanksgiving dinner.

That was the world I lived in and why adopting a child seemed like a natural extension of motherhood for me. I had faith that my child would be safe in my community. And my country.

Which brings me to the reason I`m writing this post. There are a lot of conversations right now about speaking up. I`m not sure anyone "owes" my family an explanation of their political beliefs. But we sure trust and appreciate those who speak out against a government that profiles people of color. And who are equally alarmed and ashamed that Mr. Thao, a U.S. citizen like my daughter, was pulled out of his shower after ICE agents broke his door down.

It’s painful to know that the neighbor who gave our daughter a delightful picture book when we brought her home is supporting a party that is encouraging its agents to ask, “Where do the Asians live?” It`s painful to be a guest in the home of someone who assumes my family is as white as hers and confidently tells me how glad she is that God is working through Trump to "clean up" our country and get rid of all these "dangerous criminals.”

I have so much admiration for people who speak up when they don`t have to. I mean, I`m on board this ship whether I like it or not because we`re an Asian-American family. To all of you out there fighting the good fight: I see you and I thank you.

To that end, I`m going to put resources I trust in the comments. Please share yours, too. Or DM me if you prefer.

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I grew up in Minnesota. My mom was the Social Justice Chair at our Lutheran church, so it was normal to see her rush out at all hours to deliver food, diapers, and other aid to people in need. When St. Paul began welcoming Hmong refugees, my parents were among the first to help. For my Vietnam-vet dad, I've always believed it was an opportunity to atone for the sins our country committed in Vietnam. I remember two families in particular because they made wonderful food as a gift for my graduation party. Another time, a Somali woman and her daughter showed up at our church looking for community. So my mom invited them to Thanksgiving dinner.

That was the world I lived in and why adopting a child seemed like a natural extension of motherhood for me. I had faith that my child would be safe in my community. And my country.

Which brings me to the reason I'm writing this post. There are a lot of conversations right now about speaking up. I'm not sure anyone "owes" my family an explanation of their political beliefs. But we sure trust and appreciate those who speak out against a government that profiles people of color. And who are equally alarmed and ashamed that Mr. Thao, a U.S. citizen like my daughter, was pulled out of his shower after ICE agents broke his door down.

It’s painful to know that the neighbor who gave our daughter a delightful picture book when we brought her home is supporting a party that is encouraging its agents to ask, “Where do the Asians live?” It's painful to be a guest in the home of someone who assumes my family is as white as hers and confidently tells me how glad she is that God is working through Trump to "clean up" our country and get rid of all these "dangerous criminals.”

I have so much admiration for people who speak up when they don't have to. I mean, I'm on board this ship whether I like it or not because we're an Asian-American family. To all of you out there fighting the good fight: I see you and I thank you. 

To that end, I'm going to put resources I trust in the comments. Please share yours, too. Or DM me if you prefer.

Had a great time at my first student band showcase! Thank you to Stages Music Arts; Brett, our awesome instructor; and my band mates for making it such a fun night.

I was so surprised and thrilled to look out in the audience and see two of my wonderful friends from our Special Olympics International days (back in the `90s!). And thank you to Tim and our girls for being there and being such a great audience. Will had class, but I hear there`s another showcase in April. Rock on! ❤️😂

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Had a great time at my first student band showcase! Thank you to Stages Music Arts; Brett, our awesome instructor; and my band mates for making it such a fun night. 

I was so surprised and thrilled to look out in the audience and see two of my wonderful friends from our Special Olympics International days (back in the '90s!). And thank you to Tim and our girls for being there and being such a great audience. Will had class, but I hear there's another showcase in April. Rock on! ❤️😂

Who wants to talk books?! These are the books I received this Christmas:

1: FRANNY AND ZOOEY by J. D. Salinger. I love Holden Caulfield in THE CATCHER IN THE RYE, so I don`t know how I’ve managed to go this long without reading this book!
2: MERRY by Susan Breen. From the cover copy: "Fans of family stories, classic literature, Christmas novels, and holiday season magic will adore MERRY." Also, it`s set in London and features a copy of A CHRISTMAS CAROL signed by Dickens. (We have a copy of A CHRISTMAS CAROL signed by Dickens`s great-great grandson, Gerald Dickens, from the one-man show he performed at the Saint Paul Hotel years ago. ❤️)
3: THE ONLY ONE LEFT by Riley Sager. "Deliciously Gothic" and "jaw-dropping twists" sounds good to me.
4. 6:40 TO MONTREAL by Eva Jurczyk. This has an Agatha Christie vibe: locked-room, which is always fun, and the protagonist is a writer named Agatha who`s on her way to a writing retreat on a train with beautiful views when disaster strikes.
5. THE SNOW LIES DEEP by Paula Munier. Dogs, snow, and mystery is right up my alley.
6. STORY by Robert McKee from Andrew. I love the study of writing (English lit textbook editor and all), so I`m excited about diving into the definitive book on screenplays. Andrew and I have started a wonderful collaboration on our writing projects, so I hope this will help me understand the nuances of screenwriting—and maybe help me write my own for THE ADVENT BOX!

How about you? Did you get any books for Christmas? Please share!

P.S. My aunt Joan made these beautiful bookmarks for everyone. They arrived with a huge bag of homemade caramels. It doesn`t get any better than that! ❤️

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Who wants to talk books?! These are the books I received this Christmas:

1: FRANNY AND ZOOEY by J. D. Salinger. I love Holden Caulfield in THE CATCHER IN THE RYE, so I don't know how I’ve managed to go this long without reading this  book! 
2: MERRY by Susan Breen. From the cover copy: "Fans of family stories, classic literature, Christmas novels, and holiday season magic will adore MERRY." Also, it's set in London and features a copy of A CHRISTMAS CAROL signed by Dickens. (We have a copy of A CHRISTMAS CAROL signed by Dickens's great-great grandson, Gerald Dickens, from the one-man show he performed at the Saint Paul Hotel years ago. ❤️)
3: THE ONLY ONE LEFT by Riley Sager. "Deliciously Gothic" and "jaw-dropping twists" sounds good to me. 
4. 6:40 TO MONTREAL by Eva Jurczyk. This has an Agatha Christie vibe: locked-room, which is always fun, and the protagonist is a writer named Agatha who's on her way to a writing retreat on a train with beautiful views when disaster strikes.
5. THE SNOW LIES DEEP by Paula Munier. Dogs, snow, and mystery is right up my alley.
6. STORY by Robert McKee from Andrew. I love the study of writing (English lit textbook editor and all), so I'm excited about diving into the definitive book on screenplays. Andrew and I have started a wonderful collaboration on our writing projects, so I hope this will help me understand the nuances of screenwriting—and maybe help me write my own for THE ADVENT BOX!

How about you? Did you get any books for Christmas? Please share!

P.S. My aunt Joan made these beautiful bookmarks for everyone. They arrived with a huge bag of homemade caramels. It doesn't get any better than that! ❤️
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