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A Mom's Year

Creating a comfortable life one moment at a time

December 19, 2011

Staples and Scrooge

{ The remains of the plum pudding }

So. We invited a few of our music- and theater-loving friends and their children over Sunday night for dinner, caroling, and a read-through of A Christmas Carol. Everything was off to a great start when Will fell and got a nasty cut on the back of his head. It was obvious he’d need medical intervention so off he and Tim went to the ER. Now, had this been the first time Will had to get stapled back together, our guests would have had to fend for themselves. But since it was Round #3 (and because Tim is the kind of dad he is), I was able to send Will off with a kiss and a promise to wait until he got back to light up the plum pudding. But still.

Luckily, our friends rallied and kept the evening going. We had Aunt Karna’s stuffed shells, Caesar salad, and garlic bread, followed by Christmas cookies and, in keeping with the evening’s Victorian theme, the baked plum pudding. This is a user-friendly plum pudding and I think everyone who tried it was pleasantly surprised. Of course, if you pour enough brandy on something….

By the time Tim and Will got home it was getting late so we only had time to act out part of the play. But everyone knows how it ends, so that was okay. I had high hopes for making pine cone fire-starters for our adult guests, but I ran out of time. (It could still happen.) We did manage to make Victorian crepe-paper balls for the kids. They’re really simple: you just buy a small inexpensive trinket like silly putty or a tiny ornament and wrap each little gift in yards and yards of colorful crepe paper. I remember several years ago my cousin being thrilled because unwinding the crepe-paper ball kept her toddler busy for a good 10 minutes.

Despite the craziness, I think everyone understood what I was trying to accomplish. The holidays can fly by in a blur and I crave moments of just being together with family and friends, creating the memories that will, I hope, last. For me the memories of this gathering will include the children singing (as Melyssa said, “the most beautiful sound in the world”), piano performances, and the menfolk gamely turning off the football game to come and act out the play. God bless us, every one.

Here’s the recipe for baked plum pudding if you’d like to give it a try. It’s very easy and is quite a little crowd-pleaser when you light it on fire.

Baked Plum Pudding

(from The TeaTime Gazette)

1/2 cup soft butter
1/2 cup sugar
3 eggs
2 cups mixed dried fruit (any combination of currants, raisins, golden raisins)
1/2 cup slivered almonds
1 tsp. ground ginger
1 tsp. ground nutmeg
1 tsp. ground allspice
2 cups fresh breadcrumbs
1 whole almond*

Cream butter and sugar. Add eggs, one at a time, beating after each addition. In a separate bowl, combine dried fruit and slivered almonds. Stir into butter mixture. Cut fresh bread into 1/2-inch cubes. Mix bread and spices, then stir into batter. Pour into a greased casserole or pudding basin (see notes below). Bake in a preheated 375 degree oven for 35 to 45 minutes.

Baking Dish: Select a “pudding basin” (a crock that is small at the bottom and widens out at the top) or use a 1-1/2 quart casserole. Butter the container, then line just the bottom with a circle of cooking parchment to prevent the pudding from sticking. Butter the top of the parchment, too.

To Reheat Pudding: Cover top of casserole dish with foil and casserole lid. Put in a steamer and steam over low heat for approximately 30 minutes, making sure it doesn’t boil dry. Or you can pour 1 inch hot water into a cake pan and place the entire casserole dish in the pan, covered loosely with foil. Bake in a 300 degree oven for 30 minutes or until warm.

To Serve: When you’re ready to serve, loosen the edges of the pudding, invert onto a serving platter, and remove the parchment. Traditional decoration for plum pudding is fresh holly, so you can place a few sprigs on top of the pudding before pouring 3 Tbsp. or more brandy over the top of the hot pudding and lighting it with a match. Turn out the lights and carry the pudding to the table. Serve with Lemon Hard Sauce on the side.

Lemon Hard Sauce: Sift 1-2/3 cup powdered sugar, then cream sugar with 6 Tbsp. soft butter. Gradually beat in 2 Tbsp. lemon juice and grated rind from 1 lemon. Refrigerate. Allow to warm up for about 60 minutes before serving.

* In Victorian times, a coin would have been hidden in the pudding and whoever found it would have good luck in the New Year. A whole almond works just as well.

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  1. Stephanie says

    December 19, 2011 at 12:20 pm

    Oh no, poor Will. How is he recovering? Staples aren’t very nice, I had them once. You had a great evening organised – I don’t know where you get your energy and ideas from!

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  2. Shannon says

    December 19, 2011 at 1:17 pm

    Steph, you’re doing just as much, plus chasing down sheep! I think it’s just sheer stubbornness that motivates me. Will is recovering well; there were a few tears but he’s taking it in stride.

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Hello! My name is Shannon Taylor and I’m a mom of four, originally from Minnesota and now living in Maryland. I "published" my first newsletter when I was nine, and since then, I’ve written and edited for magazines, websites, and textbooks. I started this blog when my kids were small to reflect on life, share ideas, and preserve memories. Now that my children are grown, I continue to use this space to document meaningful moments and practical ideas.

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I grew up in Minnesota. My mom was the Social Justice Chair at our Lutheran church, so it was normal to see her rush out at all hours to deliver food, diapers, and other aid to people in need. When St. Paul began welcoming Hmong refugees, my parents were among the first to help. For my Vietnam-vet dad, I`ve always believed it was an opportunity to atone for the sins our country committed in Vietnam. I remember two families in particular because they made wonderful food as a gift for my graduation party. Another time, a Somali woman and her daughter showed up at our church looking for community. So my mom invited them to Thanksgiving dinner.

That was the world I lived in and why adopting a child seemed like a natural extension of motherhood for me. I had faith that my child would be safe in my community. And my country.

Which brings me to the reason I`m writing this post. There are a lot of conversations right now about speaking up. I`m not sure anyone "owes" my family an explanation of their political beliefs. But we sure trust and appreciate those who speak out against a government that profiles people of color. And who are equally alarmed and ashamed that Mr. Thao, a U.S. citizen like my daughter, was pulled out of his shower after ICE agents broke his door down.

It’s painful to know that the neighbor who gave our daughter a delightful picture book when we brought her home is supporting a party that is encouraging its agents to ask, “Where do the Asians live?” It`s painful to be a guest in the home of someone who assumes my family is as white as hers and confidently tells me how glad she is that God is working through Trump to "clean up" our country and get rid of all these "dangerous criminals.”

I have so much admiration for people who speak up when they don`t have to. I mean, I`m on board this ship whether I like it or not because we`re an Asian-American family. To all of you out there fighting the good fight: I see you and I thank you.

To that end, I`m going to put resources I trust in the comments. Please share yours, too. Or DM me if you prefer.

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I grew up in Minnesota. My mom was the Social Justice Chair at our Lutheran church, so it was normal to see her rush out at all hours to deliver food, diapers, and other aid to people in need. When St. Paul began welcoming Hmong refugees, my parents were among the first to help. For my Vietnam-vet dad, I've always believed it was an opportunity to atone for the sins our country committed in Vietnam. I remember two families in particular because they made wonderful food as a gift for my graduation party. Another time, a Somali woman and her daughter showed up at our church looking for community. So my mom invited them to Thanksgiving dinner.

That was the world I lived in and why adopting a child seemed like a natural extension of motherhood for me. I had faith that my child would be safe in my community. And my country.

Which brings me to the reason I'm writing this post. There are a lot of conversations right now about speaking up. I'm not sure anyone "owes" my family an explanation of their political beliefs. But we sure trust and appreciate those who speak out against a government that profiles people of color. And who are equally alarmed and ashamed that Mr. Thao, a U.S. citizen like my daughter, was pulled out of his shower after ICE agents broke his door down.

It’s painful to know that the neighbor who gave our daughter a delightful picture book when we brought her home is supporting a party that is encouraging its agents to ask, “Where do the Asians live?” It's painful to be a guest in the home of someone who assumes my family is as white as hers and confidently tells me how glad she is that God is working through Trump to "clean up" our country and get rid of all these "dangerous criminals.”

I have so much admiration for people who speak up when they don't have to. I mean, I'm on board this ship whether I like it or not because we're an Asian-American family. To all of you out there fighting the good fight: I see you and I thank you. 

To that end, I'm going to put resources I trust in the comments. Please share yours, too. Or DM me if you prefer.

Had a great time at my first student band showcase! Thank you to Stages Music Arts; Brett, our awesome instructor; and my band mates for making it such a fun night.

I was so surprised and thrilled to look out in the audience and see two of my wonderful friends from our Special Olympics International days (back in the `90s!). And thank you to Tim and our girls for being there and being such a great audience. Will had class, but I hear there`s another showcase in April. Rock on! ❤️😂

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Had a great time at my first student band showcase! Thank you to Stages Music Arts; Brett, our awesome instructor; and my band mates for making it such a fun night. 

I was so surprised and thrilled to look out in the audience and see two of my wonderful friends from our Special Olympics International days (back in the '90s!). And thank you to Tim and our girls for being there and being such a great audience. Will had class, but I hear there's another showcase in April. Rock on! ❤️😂

Who wants to talk books?! These are the books I received this Christmas:

1: FRANNY AND ZOOEY by J. D. Salinger. I love Holden Caulfield in THE CATCHER IN THE RYE, so I don`t know how I’ve managed to go this long without reading this book!
2: MERRY by Susan Breen. From the cover copy: "Fans of family stories, classic literature, Christmas novels, and holiday season magic will adore MERRY." Also, it`s set in London and features a copy of A CHRISTMAS CAROL signed by Dickens. (We have a copy of A CHRISTMAS CAROL signed by Dickens`s great-great grandson, Gerald Dickens, from the one-man show he performed at the Saint Paul Hotel years ago. ❤️)
3: THE ONLY ONE LEFT by Riley Sager. "Deliciously Gothic" and "jaw-dropping twists" sounds good to me.
4. 6:40 TO MONTREAL by Eva Jurczyk. This has an Agatha Christie vibe: locked-room, which is always fun, and the protagonist is a writer named Agatha who`s on her way to a writing retreat on a train with beautiful views when disaster strikes.
5. THE SNOW LIES DEEP by Paula Munier. Dogs, snow, and mystery is right up my alley.
6. STORY by Robert McKee from Andrew. I love the study of writing (English lit textbook editor and all), so I`m excited about diving into the definitive book on screenplays. Andrew and I have started a wonderful collaboration on our writing projects, so I hope this will help me understand the nuances of screenwriting—and maybe help me write my own for THE ADVENT BOX!

How about you? Did you get any books for Christmas? Please share!

P.S. My aunt Joan made these beautiful bookmarks for everyone. They arrived with a huge bag of homemade caramels. It doesn`t get any better than that! ❤️

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Who wants to talk books?! These are the books I received this Christmas:

1: FRANNY AND ZOOEY by J. D. Salinger. I love Holden Caulfield in THE CATCHER IN THE RYE, so I don't know how I’ve managed to go this long without reading this  book! 
2: MERRY by Susan Breen. From the cover copy: "Fans of family stories, classic literature, Christmas novels, and holiday season magic will adore MERRY." Also, it's set in London and features a copy of A CHRISTMAS CAROL signed by Dickens. (We have a copy of A CHRISTMAS CAROL signed by Dickens's great-great grandson, Gerald Dickens, from the one-man show he performed at the Saint Paul Hotel years ago. ❤️)
3: THE ONLY ONE LEFT by Riley Sager. "Deliciously Gothic" and "jaw-dropping twists" sounds good to me. 
4. 6:40 TO MONTREAL by Eva Jurczyk. This has an Agatha Christie vibe: locked-room, which is always fun, and the protagonist is a writer named Agatha who's on her way to a writing retreat on a train with beautiful views when disaster strikes.
5. THE SNOW LIES DEEP by Paula Munier. Dogs, snow, and mystery is right up my alley.
6. STORY by Robert McKee from Andrew. I love the study of writing (English lit textbook editor and all), so I'm excited about diving into the definitive book on screenplays. Andrew and I have started a wonderful collaboration on our writing projects, so I hope this will help me understand the nuances of screenwriting—and maybe help me write my own for THE ADVENT BOX!

How about you? Did you get any books for Christmas? Please share!

P.S. My aunt Joan made these beautiful bookmarks for everyone. They arrived with a huge bag of homemade caramels. It doesn't get any better than that! ❤️
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